I found a demon of a core belief šŸ˜ˆ

I hate myself when I'm poor

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I hate myselfā€¦

ā€¦when I'm poor.

So much of my self-worth is tied to my bank balance.

When it's low, I start to hate and, even worse, doubt myself.

The negative thoughts begin to creep in:

ā€” You still suck. You canā€™t do this, who do you think you are? Look at how pathetic you are. ā€”

No matter how much Iā€™ve earned in the past, if I'm struggling financially now, my mind turns against me.

This leads to a vicious cycle. I sink into depression, lose motivation, and become trapped in negative thought loops.

Tying self-worth to financial status isn't wise.

Yet, our society often equates being broke with being broken, unworthy, or valueless.

But that's a fallacy.

There's so much more to our value than the figures in our bank accounts.

Consider:

  • How many people have you made smile today?

  • How many lives have you touched positively this year?

  • Whose day brightens simply because you're in it?

I might not focus on these questions as much as I should, but when my finances are dire, I've learned toā€¦

justā€¦

letā€¦

itā€¦

go.

Releasing the grip of fear, self-judgment, and perceived external judgments liberates me.

It allows me to live in the present, where, despite financial challenges, I am safe.

No one is chasing me. Iā€™m not in a warzone. Iā€™m not in imminent mortal danger.

Iā€™m here. Breathing. Alive in the 21st century.

In a world where Amazon exists. Where advanced sanitation systems are the norm. Where I can bathe in clean water.

What do you need to release your grip on? What should you start letting go of?

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