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Uncertain thinking leads to uncertain outcomes
What are you uncertain about?
Uncertainty
What are you uncertain about?
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If your investment is going to pan out, or leave you bankrupt?
If the person you’re dating is going to want to be exclusive with you?
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Most of the time we view these questions from a scarce point of view…. AKA a lack of.
I have it worse than most, I come from a linage of Jews, they always are worrying about money, usually when they have more than enough of it.
What a terrible backwards way of viewing the world.
So I’ve been working on eliminating my scare mindset, I’m not going quite as far as having an abundant mindset, but it’s a step in the right direction.
Let’s nip some generation trauma in the bud shall we?
So an example from my life is even when my bank account is full, I still worry about when it will be empty, no, I actually anticipate it being empty again and plan around that.
It’s no way to live.
What I’ve been doing to combat this is, instead of anticipating when it will be drained, or if more will enter the bank account, I focus on anticipating that more WILL be entering the account.
Not worrying about the when or how, but knowing that it will… as long as I take steps to make it happen of course, I’m not going to rely on Woo Woo magic.
The belief is still there, even as I wrote that last sentence, I questioned it.
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Will it though?
How long can I go?
I don’t want overdraft fees
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I have to constantly remind myself that more money has always made it back in, sure there have been some tight weeks or months, but it always balances out eventually.
So why worry about it? What does that do for me?
Nothing.
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Well something, it causes me stress and fear.
Which I don’t need, and hasn’t ever helped me make money, and more than anything the stress and fear causes me to shut down.
…Leading to less money and a less full bank account
For me, moving forward is only going to be about anticipating that more money, women, and joy will enter my life, and I’m going to ignoring any other intrusive thoughts that flashes through my brain.
So as I asked in the beginning of this email, what are you uncertain about?
And after reading this, how are you going to think about that situation now?
Will you join me and start anticipating that?
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The investment will pan out, and if it doesn’t another one will, even if this one wipes you out?
That person will want to date you exclusively, and even if they don't, someone else will come around eventually who will want to date you exclusively.
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